Setforlife
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Agreed. The weirdest thing in the latest click bait article was saying it’s experiences that matter, then imply they never go on holiday and certainly not abroad:It's also important to remember that experiences make people happier than things. (That's not me saying it, there's actual serious research on the subject!) So even if you are splurging, you're really much better off dropping a grand on a holiday than on the latest iphone for example.
To me, we live a life of abundance. We enjoy time freedom, luxury in the form of experiences, and the ability to slow down and savour life.
Ask our parents’ generation how many overseas holidays they took as kids, or how many cars they owned growing up, and the answer might surprise you.
Somewhere along the way, our generation changed the definition of what it means to live a rich life. We equated happiness with consumption, but in doing so, we lost sight of what truly matters.
A lot of the ‘fire’ type stuff on YouTube is similar, just parroting the same stuff about living a simple life, but trying to say it’s time rich full of ‘free’ experiences also. All very vague so it seems meaningful rather than meaningless. Which is nice but we all know experiences are a great choice over things perhaps, but they cost just as much or more.
Living carefully so you can comfortably afford experiences like overseas holidays is something I can understand more for example, especially when it’s often cheaper than Ireland anyway, so equating it as some kind of rampant consumerism doesn’t make sense.