Is it not the case in this instance that the Fair Deal Scheme are entitled to € 14,625 i.e. € 65,000 x 22.5 % and therefore if the house makes the current market valuation € 45,000 this will leave € 45,000 less € 14,625 = € 30,375.00 to pay the funeral expenses, solicitor fees and auctioneer fees etc?
There is mention of Nursing Home Shortfall but if his/her entire pension was paid to the nursing home, the 20% on top of the 80% Fair Deal amount should cover these extras not covered by Fair Deal Scheme. Or maybe I am underestimating these amounts? I would be looking for a detailed account from the Nursing Home if they are claiming some shortfall. As has already being mentioned I think the funeral expenses are given some priority over other debts if there are any.
I hope you get it all sorted out.