getoffthepot
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Re: Engagement rings and diamonds
Checkout http://www.bluenile.com/
recommended to me by my bro in the US.
Checkout http://www.bluenile.com/
recommended to me by my bro in the US.
Bought "our" ring in Antwerp at the beginning of August. Probably didn't 'save' money, as we spent the same amount as we budgeted on a better quality rock, but the same one over here is being quoted at 2,000+ higher than we paid. IMO it's well worth doing.
You may benefit from some observations: When you arrive (by train) you are in the diamond district, as evidences by the dozens of diamond shops; but we were warned not to buy in the ones around the station- they are typically smaller and cheaper looking.
Very few of the jewelers are affiliated with the Belgian Diamond sellers association; I can’t remember the name, so that was a bit off-putting. We bought in one that wasn’t a member but we had the certificate so reckoned it was OK.
If you go to some of the bigger dealers like DiamondLand you’ll see a huge range, probably more choice there than in all of Dublin put together. My advice is decide in somewhere like this what you want to get in terms of cut carat clarity etc. (and they have a huge selection of settings also) but don’t buy there, look around. When you go into a shop and can say show me a 1.2 carat, VVS1, blah blah, you will find they cut out a lot of the sales chatter and you'll get down to business much quicker.
Many of them seem to have permanent "sales" advertising up to 70% discount so there is huge scope for haggling. When you know exactly what kind of ring you want my advice is to find two or three shops where you trust them and negotiate a best price but insist that you have to leave to continue looking. And do leave. You will hear excuses that they have to return the loose diamonds to dealers (some places keep a limited stock and so ring a nearby dealer to have the diamonds you are looking delivered to the shop for your inspection) and that they cant guarantee you that it will be there when you come back, but I would say this is the only way to get their lowest price out of them.
Also they will offer fairly big discounts for part or whole payment in cash, if you don’t feel nervous about carrying 000's around with you, it’s well worth while, and I wish I had known that before I went.
Unlike here, most of them don't even think about charging you for the ring setting etc.(unless it's platinum).
One other thing to consider is the certification. The certified diamonds come in little sealed plastic boxes with certificates from HRD, DHC, IGL or some of the other diamond associations. I have seen some conflicting advice about which of them is best, some of the shops suggest that IGL has margin of error, i.e. they say your diamond is say VVS1, but that's with some margin of error +/-. So if you have it valued you might find it's slightly better or worse than you thought.
Most of the dealers take the diamond out of the boxes to examine the diamonds and show their customers. I think that’s where trust comes into play. The average person can’t tell the difference between two diamonds whose value doffer by thousands. So when you are buying you have to make sure that you get the certificate, that was at least you have proof that you bought a certain standard of diamond and if you get it valued and it turns out to be something different then you'll have some comeback, through credit card or whatever. Some of them offer to have the diamond re sealed by the certifying body for a cost of something like 25 euro, that way you can buy your diamond with confidence and take it home and have it set by your Irish jeweler or whatever.
Its also worthwhile looking around for the wedding ring to match. Looked while we were there and even though we had no intention of buying the shop came down by 1000 from the RRP on the original ticked, to about 1/3 of the price. Haggling definitely pays off. Most of them will go through the charade of typing numbers into their calculators and trying to give the impression that they're figuring out how low they can go, IMO walking out is the best tactic, you can always come back if you can’t get a better price elsewhere.
You can spend as much time looking around in the various shops around the district. We got it all done in a day but you could spend days looking around if you wanted. The shops near the main shopping st (cant remember the name of it) seem to be the best in terms of presentation etc. but not the cheapest. Orsini's seems to be the equivalent of Weirs in Dublin. The smaller shops around Diamondland and the streets near the IGL and DHC HRD buildings seemed trustworthy, but the ones near the station did seem seedier.
Antwerp itself is nice enough, but apparently there are nicer places elsewhere in Belgium where diamonds are just as affordable but I think you'll get the biggest choice in Antwerp. Other shopping is fairly standard city centre fare, no cheaper than Dublin as far as I could see.
Don't go diamond shopping at the end July/ early Aug as this is when the dealers go on holidays. We were lucky in that some of them were opened, but a week later we would have had more choice.
For travel details on getting to Antwerp, see posts above.
Went to Antwerp last week after doing my research here and on other sites. Decided to narrow it down to diamondland and phillipe harold (obviously stay away from the shops across from the central station). Bought ring from philippe harold as he just seemed to have a better understanding of the whole process. I mentioned cash payment after I bargained price down a bit and yes this does matter, another 21% saving! There is a small issue if you go down this route; you will not be given the certificate for the diamond there and then but it will be posted to your home address. Well worth the trip.can you bargain on price with philippe harold when paying cash?
in dublin the price on display can always be negotiated with 10-30% discount available!
I forgot to mention, while I was in Diamondland I picked out a diamond and said I would think about it. The next day after I went to Philippe Harold I got a call from Diamondland to see was I still interested. When I said I was also looking in PH's they knocked another 10% off the price we had agreed previously!Went to Antwerp last week after doing my research here and on other sites. Decided to narrow it down to diamondland and phillipe harold (obviously stay away from the shops across from the central station). Bought ring from philippe harold as he just seemed to have a better understanding of the whole process. I mentioned cash payment after I bargained price down a bit and yes this does matter, another 21% saving! There is a small issue if you go down this route; you will not be given the certificate for the diamond there and then but it will be posted to your home address. Well worth the trip.