Culture: It's a massive city that was almost nothing 20 years ago. The type of 'culture' people are usually accustomed to was grown over hundreds of years. it simply unfair to expect the same from a city like Dubai. It does have its own special culture - and many people quite like it. Of course there are certain aspects that we might not like, but overall the place is pretty great - that's why there are so may ex pats living there and enjoying it.
I think you missed the point re the culture; it wasn't referring to Dubai's culture, but that Dubai has many external cultures that haven't mixed.
Regarding you're comment on the many happy ex-pats in this 'special place' I have to disagree, although I'm sure these people exist.
the people like myself, and my remaining colleagues there have been there for almost a decade and are there simple for the tax, money and access to whatever they want, whenever they want. Once they become more family-orientated, they have no intention of staying.
The clincher for me was not being able to go out for lunch; its just simply too hot, we always ordered in.
As for people who go on holiday or honeymoon there, I have to tell them that yes Dubai is agreat place for a few days, but its Neither New York nor the Maldives in equal measure, and they shouldn't expect to be spending the day on the beach or in the dunes. So what else is there to do - Water world? The indoor ski-ing? its more of a giant 5-flags park than a major city.
I see Dubai as a play-thing for the global boom of the past 20 years; and while i 'like' Dubai (in the same sort of way I like Vegas or places like that), I don't think any of us will never 'value' it.
If they removed the tax-free status, the place would empty in a week; on that I have absolutely no doubt. Its no Barbados or Bermuda.