Posts like this are so pointless and meaningless.
It is like the OP wants people to argue against his/her decision so he/she can feel as if everyone is of the opinion that he/she should have kids.
Seriously if it is something you feel the need to start a debate on on what is primarily a financial site then no way in the world are you ready to even contemplate having kids.
I kind of find posts about lipotrim pointless but I guess people have different things they feel the need to talk about - that's the point of shooting the breeze