Brendan Burgess
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If it goes wrong then you pay an expert to help you.
You obviously don’t understand the concept of relativity. If I’m sharing a large inheritance, €1,600 is nothing taking all things into account, including risk/reward, one’s own time etc. Comparing it to a discussion on the price of milk is frankly, ridiculous.I suppose it takes all sorts, but it's difficult for me to reconcile the dismissal of a four-figure sum of money as of little or no consequence on a site that is all about consumers, containing threads that went on for a considerable time about the price of 2-litres of milk in Dunnes and the differences in prices between tins of sweets pre-Christmas.
What do you call that behaviour when people seem to argue solely to be disruptive, or just for the sake of arguing or just to be seen or heard? Maybe "chronically frustrated barristeritis", to make a non-American neologism, describes it nicely.
The OP stands to collect one third of an estate valued at over €600K. A few grand spent in order to lessen the chances of it all going pear shaped is loose change in that context.For some people here €1,600 is most certainly not nothing, read some of the posts, and the cris de coeur for guidance and sources of help for posters in extremis.
What about foolish behaviour and whataboutery from people who contribute nothing and can’t seem to understand basic concepts like relativity and logic?A perfect example of the behaviour I alluded to in my preceding post which you unnecessarily quoted in full. But thanks, it reinforces the message.
For some people here €1,600 is most certainly not nothing, read some of the posts, and the cris de coeur for guidance and sources of help for posters in extremis.
Speaking of whataboutery ... Please identify the behaviour you see as foolish. I see spending money unnecessarily as foolish, relative to the simple work that needs completing for the grant of probate, tax calculations, and returns.What about foolish behaviour
“like a champ”Speaking of whataboutery ... Please identify the behaviour you see as foolish. I see spending money unnecessarily as foolish, relative to the simple work that needs completing for the grant of probate, tax calculations, and returns.
Did I mention I've experience acting as executor, once with the incompetent assistance of an idiot solicitor and once without? In my experience I managed the entire professionally unassisted, professionally unadvised process like a champ, saving loads in the process. Even though I got compensated by the Law Society for the idiot's incompetence at the time, it wasn't worth the hassle. So in relative terms, I'd always opt to do what I can while flying solo. I know my limitations, relative to the tasks to be completed, I don't know the other guy's limitations or scotomas.
It depends on how long it will take to do, and how much value you attach to your own time. The less value you attach to your time, the more sense it makes to do this yourself.If you have the time, skill and inclination to do this non complex work yourself and save yourself 2k then why wouldnt you do it. Its 2k!
I learned recently that the Probate Office in 2025 still only accepts payments from the public by cheque and postal order.A solicitor is only charged 500 euro probate office fee. Totally unfair treatment.
This. The application in person process involves an appointment for an in-person meeting with probate office staff. Solicitors making an application don't get this.I hear ya @S class, but maybe that's for the extra bit of effort they need to expend dealing with a civilian.
I don't think that's right.I learned recently that the Probate Office in 2025 still only accepts payments from the public by cheque and postal order.
I couldn’t have said it better myself. It seems best suited to megalomaniacs who haven’t yet learned one of life’s most important lessons…you don’t know what you don’t know.Basically, the greater your opinion of your own abilities, and the less value you place on your own time, the more likely you are to take on this job yourself. What could possibly go wrong?
For sure like a champ, but you'd have to have been there to see it first hand. Super performance.“like a champ”
Who appointed that solicitor?
Exactly what happened to me having done my due diligence and hearing nothing but good about the firm, I proceeded as any civilian would and put the business in the hands of an apparent professional.And you are always assuming a competent, efficient and honest solicitor. What could possibly go wrong? You could pick a dishonest or incompetent or inefficient solicitor and it would take far longer.