On him, on you, both as a potential couple, your au pair, yer man's 'hit' rate, what?...Guys, I'd like an opinion...
If I were a female I'd have levelled him and then shown him the door.
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If I were a female I'd have levelled him and then shown him the door.
Thats what would have happened had he "chanced his arm" in my house, but was trying to be polite in my post above.
He would have felt the force of a kick of my six inch stiletto firmly in his backside.....Though that might have suited him!
Just looking for some objective advice from the men here. Had somebody doing some work for me who one day put his arm around me and asked me if I was in a relationship. I got such a shock that I said I was, sort of, and he said whoever, he was he was a very lucky guy. Later I texted him and said was only up for frienship with any guy at the moment. He texted me back to say coffee with no strings would be fine. I texted back that this would be greate. This guy is in his mid fifties and I am early forties. He remained quite flirtatious for the rest of the time when the work was being done. He's 99% finished work now - only one tiny thing to be done - so I texted him about this yesterday, said I hadn't been quite truthful - I wasn't in a relationship, but met an old friend in Dublin for lunch and drinks on some Saturdays. I said I am the kind of person that needs loads of time to think so that''s why I was only getting back to coffee issue now - suggested that sometime I would like to meet for coffee at our local heritage place. However, just after I texted him, my au pair, who has lied in relation to money before, told me that he made a pass at her and kissed her when I wasn't here last Fri. Now the guy is completely ignoring me, hasn't responded at all to my text, looked away today when I saw him in the street, and I also don't know who to believe him or my au pair. By the way, not a clingy woman, career, kids, studying, busy life. We had a lot in common, both into property and renting it. Guys, I'd like an opinion. Thanks.
Sorry, Mathpac, on what went wrong. How could a guy go from saying if someone was in a relationship with me he was very lucky and flirting and not saying coffee would be o.k. to not even respondin to text re coffee. I am confused!!!
I also don't know who to believe him or my au pair
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