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Its shocking whats happening out there to ordinary people, living in fear of a knock on the door of your own house. These institutions were handing out pre-approved loans only 3 years ago and increasing credit card limits without notifying customers.
I'm not saying we dont all need to take responsibility for our spending habits but the banks have to also. You reap what you sow!
People’s circumstances change overnight through no fault of their own. I personally used to take home 6K a month net and now I take home zero. Business gone! Banks that used to call me on a weekly basis offering me 100K for this or 200K for that! Now? They wont even take my calls, "sorry, your account has been passed to collections, you need to deal with them now".
I have had very threatening people knocking on my door representing some very big name banks. Intimidation? Its a state of mind, what can they do? If they threaten you, you can have them arrested.
If you end up in court? A judge is a human being; if you face up to your problems he will take your side! If you have made an effort to pay something? He will take your side. Do not fear the courts. Justice means fairness.
And as for the few people on here “judging” pixie? I hope you guys never fall off of your perch, it can happen before you know it! And it’s hard to keep going, it’s hard to smile some days but its life and life only! You’ll come through it and you won’t ever allow yourself go back there so you will be stronger for it.
I think someone should set up a website naming and shaming the practices of these institutions when things go bad, so that in the good times when we all have money again? We will only do business with the ones that showed us compassion in our darkest hour. You know what? That’s what I’m going to do; I have all the time in the world. Best of look Pixie, don’t let them break you, you’re not alone.
I'm not saying we dont all need to take responsibility for our spending habits but the banks have to also. You reap what you sow!
People’s circumstances change overnight through no fault of their own. I personally used to take home 6K a month net and now I take home zero. Business gone! Banks that used to call me on a weekly basis offering me 100K for this or 200K for that! Now? They wont even take my calls, "sorry, your account has been passed to collections, you need to deal with them now".
I have had very threatening people knocking on my door representing some very big name banks. Intimidation? Its a state of mind, what can they do? If they threaten you, you can have them arrested.
If you end up in court? A judge is a human being; if you face up to your problems he will take your side! If you have made an effort to pay something? He will take your side. Do not fear the courts. Justice means fairness.
And as for the few people on here “judging” pixie? I hope you guys never fall off of your perch, it can happen before you know it! And it’s hard to keep going, it’s hard to smile some days but its life and life only! You’ll come through it and you won’t ever allow yourself go back there so you will be stronger for it.
I think someone should set up a website naming and shaming the practices of these institutions when things go bad, so that in the good times when we all have money again? We will only do business with the ones that showed us compassion in our darkest hour. You know what? That’s what I’m going to do; I have all the time in the world. Best of look Pixie, don’t let them break you, you’re not alone.