Credit Union Withdrawal from elderly woman's account made by in-law

[Cheated]

As far as I know the electricity alone would have cost around €1000.00 to reconnect and possibly a cert from an electrician. Don't know why they'd disconnect the water. In any case i've been following this post and I'd advise you to check out everything you've said regarding the expenses incurred. Apart from your relations being there for the deceased and making sure everything was taken care of, they were the only people there it seems and might indeed have incurred most of the expenses they've said they incurred. It is certainly not an extravagant amount and living in a nursing home costs a hell of a lot more than just the fee, never mind the health insurance plus everything else. You might have to lose your suspicions on this one I feel and in any case there's nothing you can do about it now anyway. Worse still, you've lost your brother and his wife as well. Just leave it now, enjoy whatever inheritance might be there for you both and get on with living. Life's too short.

Thank you

 

[Thirsty]

"...while she was in the home I was working overseas for 3 yrs "

Thats the nub of it in a nutshell.

You are abroad, other family members have to manage your mother's affairs for three years as she becomes increasingly unwell, then you sail in throwing shapes and demanding receipts.

Not surprised they've taken offence.

 

[Cheated]

"...while she was in the home I was working overseas for 3 yrs "

Thats the nub of it in a nutshell.

You are abroad, other family members have to manage your mother's affairs for three years as she becomes increasingly unwell, then you sail in throwing shapes and demanding receipts.

Not surprised they've taken offence.

Yes that true

 

[Bronte]

Yes that true

In the three years did you not wonder who was paying the nursing home the extras or the costs of looking after an empty house and dealing with the administration of your mothers affairs. Did you never ask.

 

[Thirsty]

And to give you the benefit of the doubt, I wonder if you feel bad about the fact that you were away for the last years of your Mother's life?

And that sadness has manifested itself in anger against other family members?

Maybe its time to forgive yourself & mend fences, we only get one life.