mary newton
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Hi there.
My husband claims a Jobseekers payment for himself and our 2 children and also for myself who is the qualified adult. He also claims a small but very much needed Mortgage allowance.
We have both been out of work for close on 2 years and although we are trying there has not been any fulltime positions made available to either of us yet.
My husband really hates the thoughts of signing on and queuing up in the PO every week to collect our money, he says he feels very ashamed even though I try to tell him that that is ridiculous, reminding him that he was in gainful employment for 17 years before the recession hit as was I although I did take time for maternity leave when our two were born.
Anyway I am sorry for rambling on but the because the situation bothers my husband so much about having to collect the payment every week I suggested that perhaps there may be a way in which I could be the one who is considered the main beneficiary and he the qualified adult?
That way I would collect the money in the PO something I have no problem with but causes him great shame and distress.
Is this possible? What are the steps and would it affect our small mortgage allowance? Thank you
Mary.
My husband claims a Jobseekers payment for himself and our 2 children and also for myself who is the qualified adult. He also claims a small but very much needed Mortgage allowance.
We have both been out of work for close on 2 years and although we are trying there has not been any fulltime positions made available to either of us yet.
My husband really hates the thoughts of signing on and queuing up in the PO every week to collect our money, he says he feels very ashamed even though I try to tell him that that is ridiculous, reminding him that he was in gainful employment for 17 years before the recession hit as was I although I did take time for maternity leave when our two were born.
Anyway I am sorry for rambling on but the because the situation bothers my husband so much about having to collect the payment every week I suggested that perhaps there may be a way in which I could be the one who is considered the main beneficiary and he the qualified adult?
That way I would collect the money in the PO something I have no problem with but causes him great shame and distress.
Is this possible? What are the steps and would it affect our small mortgage allowance? Thank you
Mary.