If I have been left €10k and am in no hurry, can I refuse to provide the information, so as to stop Probate being granted?
Nitpick: I think this information is only required in relation to beneficiaries who are receiving €12k or more.
But, yeah. It looks to me that, in theory, such a beneficiary can delay matters indefinitely by simply failing to provide the information needed.
It's a flaw in the legislation, I think, that it requires an applicant for probate to provide information that isn't necessarily within their own knowledge or procurement. I suspect the system mostly works in practice because the desire of beneficiaries to receive their inheritance, or the pressure put on them by other family members who want to receive
their inheritances, means that people supply the information that the applicant is required to provide.
If these mechanisms don't work, I suppose the executor could approach the Revenue, explain the problem, and see if they will accept a form that names the beneficiary concerned and adds a note that the applicant does not know, and has been unable to discover, what prior gifts/inheritances that beneficiary has received. If that were to happen I imagine the obstructive beneficiary could expect some sustained attention from the Revenue, who will naturally assume that they may have Something To Hide (like previous gifts/inheritances that gave rise to a CAT liability that wasn't reported, self-assessed or paid).
A better example is a two-parent family with 2 adult children, Joe and Patricia . . . if she confirms a figure of €100k that it won't be hard for Joe to put two and two together.
I understand the sensitivities. In fact, they're even more acute that you point out; if Patricia declines to tell Joe about other gifts/inheritances she has received within the threshhold group, it
still won't be hard to for Joe to put two and two together, and conclude that Mary has received a material amount of money from one or other of her parents.
But all we're really saying here is that this law is not well thought-out; it's bad policy. It is, nevertheless, the law. As matters stand, Joe isn't excused from providing the information to the Revenue merely because the information will anger him, embarrass Patricia or cause unhappy differences within the family.