I find it very hard to accept at face value any concerns the Tories express about a difference in NI's status. Maybe they're brainwashed by the DUP, but the minute the DUP are out of the equation I dont honestly believe they give a fiddlers.
Objectively no-one wants a hard border and the risks that poses. The deal potentially gives NI the best of both worlds. The majority who wanted to remain should be happy. Even those of the unionist persuasion must be wondering where is the real problem with the backstop - they still part of the UK until a vote otherwise, & now that the notions of Britania rules the waves have died they must wonder what's the upside of Brexit. Indy polls in Scotland are now in Yes territory - ok if Brexit settles down that may recede a little - but suffice to say that's a tide that is inevitably coming in. When it does then NI will look like a total outlier, cut off from their historical base, a base that will re-join the EU (if dragged out by then). So the long term is starting to look like a United Ireland .....I don't say that with any great relish, but 'leaving well enough alone' seems to sliding off the table at this stage - though I am still quietly confident of a peoples vote to remain.
What of Brexit? A monument to British arrogance, they honestly thought the EU would crumble when the Brits banged the table. They thought Ireland would follow them out (FFS!). Totally misunderstood their relative importance and power in the world. Now they have the deal they could only have gotten - i.e. if you want all the benefits you have to play by the rules. If you don't want the benefits then by all means be "soverign", "take back control", but just have a think about where that leaves you in trading terms. The biggest "suck in" to Britain since the empire crumbled. They're back where they were, but now they're desparately unhappy about it, I find it hard to generate any sympathy. So is it to be a no deal crash out?? - I seriously doubt it. Dover chaos, food and medicine issues. More likely a peoples vote to Remain. If not then maybe a general election - if Corbyn could be sidelined then labour should romp home and I doubt they'll run on a no deal Brexit ticket. Probably on a remain.
Theresa May should never have taken the job, if you were genuinely a remainer I dont see how you could carry out "the will of the people" stocially if convinced they'd made a terrible mistake - let those who were 'mad for it' get their hands dirty & take the flak. Now they just blame her - worst of all worlds.