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You may not mind incorrect gender reference, but the point is that Dolly does mind it. So while you feel no offence is caused by Mrsman, Dolly feels that offence is caused by Brian (while dressed as Dolly).
How would you feel if co workers repeatedly got your name wrong and even when corrected used the wrong name - would you just accept it and start answering to the wrong name? (A bit like Trigger calling Rodney Dave in Only Fools and Horses). And worse, how would you feel if they started calling you a female name, in front of everyone else, all the time. So suddenly in your normal environment you are no longer MrMan, but are now Mary. Its one thing to do it on a website, but quite another in real life.
Its a matter of self identification when Dolly is dressed as Dolly, if people refer to her as Brian then they are not identifing her as Dolly when she wishes to use that persona. And added into the wrong name, they are addressing her in wrong gender.
I may be getting your post wrong but are you actually suggesting that if I go into work tomorrow dressed as "Brian" my co-workers should just go along with it? At best I would be told to cop on.
Why should we all go along with his little game? If he wants to dress like a woman that is his choice but he cant expect everyone to just join in and play along. If he decides next week he wants to be a dog and bark should we all just bark back?