Some airlines have seats that recline by the cushion moving forward so you recline into your own space rather than into the seat behind you. Cathay Pacific come to mind but I think Lufthansa have started to introduce them too. Brilliant idea, I'm petite but I still hate recliners on planes and never recline my seat. I can't sleep on planes regardless of position. I've been lucky enough to fly in business a few times on long haul flights and still can't sleep even on a flat seat.
I had a nightmare flight years back with Damien behind me, yes the child from hell. Sitting with trendy "I don't discipline my child" Dad, it was horrendous. Flight was packed, the boy (about 9) kicked my chair, pulled my hair, shouted in my ear etc for 9 hours of an 11 hour flight. Dad's response to my pleas were "he's just a child" or "Damien (not real name but it should have been) I don't think that lady is enjoying what you are doing". Cabin crew didn't give a f*ck, it was Aer Lingus transatlantic and the last time I have given AL a cent of my money. The killer part was the demon child finally dropped off 2 hours before landing...but breakfast was served 90 minutes before landing and...Dad woke him up :O
I hate people who hog both armrests, often happens me because I'm small. Doesn't mean I don't like my space.
Carry on bags...all the things that drive me crazy have already been listed...especially on domestic flights in the US, passengers and gate staff blatantly disregard cabin bag sizers and it causes all kinds of problems on board.
People who leave airplane toilets in a state...eww, seriously!
I dislike cabin crew who are snooty, or inappropriate. On a recent flight I had an aisle seat in a preferred row, the front row of our economy section. I had that seat by virtue of my OH's frequent flyer status which gave us free access to these seats rather than paying for them. This flight was on a 757 (which I hate) so 3-3 seats, with a single aisle. Only the middle and aisle seats in our row were preferred, unusually the window wasn't. This was because the door was in front of our row and the padding on the door meant the leg room in the window seat was reduced to that of a normal row. The guy in that seat was tall and boarded before us. He decided he preferred my aisle seat to his window seat, and the flight attendant tried to convince me (in front of him) that I should swap with him because I'm smaller. I didn't. And so she showered him with extra drinks and snacks etc during the flight while practically throwing mine at me.[/QUOTE]
Wow, that was out of order. You should have made a written complaint to the airline about her.