Everybody is assuming it's a "he"

I see it as someone, in their 60s who has a lot of time on their hands during covid, is probably cocooning at home and looking around for things to do. If that includes "shooting the breeze" on the internet like they used to do in the pub, then so be it.
They found us and decided to ask for some information. (reading back on the thread, it was hived off from lifeloans thread, hence the starting point).
We appear to be very problem focused here, "tell me your problem and I'll suggest solutions". "tell me your idea and I'll critique it".
Maybe their approach is a bit odd, or we're picking it up that way, but I can still see someone who is kicking around ideas. Some of them daft, in our eyes, but it's a lot cheaper to kick them around here with us than start down the road of either life loans or renovations without doing so.
Have you ever come out with a daft statement in the pub with your mates, only for it to wander around the houses and arrive at something really useful? Like "I'm thinking of opening up the roof and putting a spiral staircase up to a viewing gallery". By the end of the night, and a few too many pints in, you arrive at the conclusion that it might not be such a good idea, but a platform up in the tree at the bottom of the garden with a comfy chair and a telescope (for stargazing) is actually a runner.
Anyway, I'm happy to keep listening to the OP and kick around the suggestions.
Anyway, it's Friday, I'm off to the pub,
Oh wait
