Right okay...as regards the silly comments about shopping in Lidl, firstly I do not have the snobby attitude towards it and sorry to rain on your parade but the quality of the majority of the Lidl groceries & cleaning things for the household is surprisingly excellent, so I would suggest that's it's pretty foolish to pay the extra in Tesco or Superquinn for the exact same product. Maybe if you went to Lidl and saw the amount of 06 BMW's etc in the carpark you would see that people are copping on to the rip offs in other stores. I buy all the nappies, wipes and fresh produce and bread, chicken & meat etc in Superquinn still but I buy everything else in Lidl as it does save money & it's good stuff. (their fig rolls are the best!)
Sandymount, the bank are not being reckless with our application, perhaps you did not read my OP properly, we are both proffesionals and I get another 5% rise next month and hubbie gets his early next year so our incomes will increase annually. I think your attitude to shopping in Lidl is a bit silly really, you need to get out more & shop around!!. BTW we were not "forced" to shop there, gave it a go and it's great...you should try it!. There is one in Wicklow anyway so we wanted to see what it's like and we were impressed!.
Bearishbull- As for the "multinational" he works for leaving the country, I very much doubt it. It's a big international financial institution that is here for years so he is very safe. Again, you may need to get out more!!.
I actually think we have been very sensible with ensuring worst case scenario we can manage and we can. We are signing tomorrow at 4pm so wish us luck. It's going to be amazing, it's a house for life and we will always be able to pay the mortgage which is the important thing. We discussed it at length again last night.
Childcare is expensive and I suppose with our son starting school in September it's going down a fraction or two which helps and we are keeping them in the same creche anyway as we still go that way to get to work and they are happy. I've just changed my hours in order to drop him to school in the mornings and he will be collected by the creche's afterschool club along with his little pals. The baby will still be there fulltime though.
Thrifty...thanks...that's exactly how I've been feeling but once we have moved in we will be chuffed!.
We have taken out a 35 year repayment mortgage, not going interest only.
Again, thanks for the replies. And will some of you stop being snobby about Lidl, my mother nearly passed out when she saw a Lidl bag in my house so I took her shopping with me one day, she's so funny. She actually thought it was fine and picked up a few household things like loo-roll but she's still not converted. Ah sure after over 20 years using Superquinn and just her and Dad at home now, she's right!!. I just thought it was funny though....my friend used to live in Germany and it was the same attitude there for years (some people would not even stand outside the place
) and now it's the top supermarket overthere. (don't quote me on that but apparantly it's very popular)