The whole situation to me is very stressful and simply not a nice way to be living.
To me your income should cover your large mortgage and afford a decent lifestyle.
If you struggle to pay the mortgage with your lifestyle it is simply not worth all the stress.
Life is way too short to be living with pressure like that. On your incomes you should really be living well.
Your house is your dream forever home but at what cost.
Two choices you sell the house or change your lifestyle in a serious way.
You deserve to live better and not have a constant pressure around finances.
Its simply not worth it.
To me your income should cover your large mortgage and afford a decent lifestyle.
If you struggle to pay the mortgage with your lifestyle it is simply not worth all the stress.
Life is way too short to be living with pressure like that. On your incomes you should really be living well.
Your house is your dream forever home but at what cost.
Two choices you sell the house or change your lifestyle in a serious way.
You deserve to live better and not have a constant pressure around finances.
Its simply not worth it.