Red Onion!!! I know!!
mad neighbours etc etc!!!I'm glad I have a flexible job to be able to spend time on my 'interesting problems'!
I'm trying to help out two people at the moment (Have another post running at present), both very close and dear to me. I hate to see people getting done over. One thing I know, a few years ago - this forum gave me gold and together with a number of others who gave me ideas and information I'm in a good position.
All my partner and I want is a simple and happy life doing our outdoors stuff, if this woman succeeds in crazy maintenance it prevents us buying a suitable family home, we drive two old bangers and have been saving like mad and yer one is in a high end development, a new car parked outside, trips galore and holidays and we had one night out this year so far to a comedy act! We should start our own!
sBarrett - she may be able to cover up lack of payments and say payments are suspended as she has to pay legal fees...
I'm like a crazy private detective at the moment trying to get answers and evidence!!
You wouldn't mind if it was the truth re maintenance and she was actually short of money, we'd have no hesitation in making sure the child was looked after; as it stands I spend a good chunk of my salary on my step child...and my own - they're treated as well as each other...he's in my will etc
Anyhow - all comments above are great as it gives me the sparks for questions!!!