I think the overriding thing I take from your posts is that you are in control - (1) you understand your finances deeply, (2) you know what you want out of life and you are able to marry the two together harmoniously.
Yes I think for me it comes down to tempering my expectations to what I can actually achieve or maintain while on this journey
I wanted this discussion to be about retirement and all that is included with that word but as I've said before in the thread even though I've technically retired early, what I've actually done in simple terms is stop working and hopefully live the rest of my life on a finite amount of money
But I feel the thinking or the way I see things or how I live can be of benefit to others who are struggling with this and other areas of their lives
There's an interesting discussion here started by
Colm Fagan but I'll be honest and say it's too technical for my little brain when they go into the nitty gritty details and I'll be very honest and say I'm not the one one who invests in the stock market, that's Mrs C's little puppy and she is very good at it, But I am involved with it as it is something we talk about a lot and monitor closely but not excessively
Until the state pension kicks in we have two main investments, My PRSA which is with Zurich in the Prisma 5 & 6
I look at that twice a year and expect to leave it that way until very close to OAP age, it will do what it does in the background
With regards to the stock portfolio, where most people our age are focused on growth, we're more focused on maintaining the value and income.
Off the top of my head probably a 40/40/20 of dividend/growth/risk profile of the stocks that we choose, we don't invest in ETF's
And though where we're not getting the return of the PRSA overall, it's doing what it's supposed to be doing and we're happy with the returns
And this is where the tracking plays an important roll, as you say it allows us to "marry the two together harmoniously"