- I have a loan with just over €2,600 outstanding paying approx €80 a month. I can make these payments and have done so. (AIB)
- I also have an overdraft of €2,750 which is constantly up to the red (AIB)
- I have a credit card with a limit of €5,000 which is a few hundred short of the limit. (AIB)
In 2016 I had a tough break up with my ex. I previously took a loan out from the bank and raised my credit card to help finance move to a new place (renting and to furnish) her folks had issues and her mother was involved in serious issues with my exs stepfather beating family members up so I lent the family €2,500 to assist with issues they badly needed. Yes it was stupid, I realise that.
A few months later my ex left me but I was entered into a lease at €1,450 + bills a month which had only recently been renewed, I had no choice but to continue this even though I really could not afford to pay this and the bills myself, because of the lease commitment and the fact all bills were jointly in our name which ate away at my savings, but with cut-backs on non essential areas I was able to run at a loss of no more than €150.
Soon as the lease ended I moved out to share with a friend and reduced my monthly rent and bills by approx half to €800. However just before CHristmas I was laid off from work and was hit by a 25% rent increase a few days earlier and demands from my flatmate of half of a €400 electricity bill (80% used by her) and found it impossible to pay this for more than a couple of months as just when I was finding my feet I lost my income,
In the end, being British, I returned to the family in UK as a safe place to go, sustained a bicycle accident and was unable to work for approx two months, the person I was staying with sold out so without any income I had to go to another relatives who live in a rural area with little chance of jobs. I've done some temporary work but have found it hard to find employment because whilst my skills are in plentiful demand they are not in rural areas.
Basic facts for the last several months:
- I have income of £292 a week from Jobseekers in the UK
- I am paying €80 a month on loan repayments to AIB
- I'm also having to pay €125 a month minimum on credit card to AIB
- Every 3 months I'm paying €80 in quarterly overdraft interest + €15 bank fees.
On each month I've got about £50-£60 left over which isn't enough so effectively I'm having to supplement this with credit card spending, so even though I may pay €120 off the credit card, I end up having to spend almost all that for daily living so the balance doesn't go down and the €6.25 fee each time I transfer money from UK to IE doesn't help.
I have never missed a repayment or gone over any limits, but I worry about December since at the end of December I will have to pay €125 credit card + €80 Loan + bank fees + overdraft interest + facility fee. I will almost certainly go over limit or miss a payment at that point and I cannot afford it.
I would like to constructively work on dealing with this debt with AIB but I'm scared of doing so because realistically offering paying €100 a month of a debt this big sounds a totally pathetic figure to suggest, but of course it will increase when I gain employment.
I post here as debt companies seem unwilling to help me much because of the fact I live in the UK and the debts are in Ireland so the debt charities here don't want to touch cross border debt, the fall of the pound hasn't helped.
- I also have an overdraft of €2,750 which is constantly up to the red (AIB)
- I have a credit card with a limit of €5,000 which is a few hundred short of the limit. (AIB)
In 2016 I had a tough break up with my ex. I previously took a loan out from the bank and raised my credit card to help finance move to a new place (renting and to furnish) her folks had issues and her mother was involved in serious issues with my exs stepfather beating family members up so I lent the family €2,500 to assist with issues they badly needed. Yes it was stupid, I realise that.
A few months later my ex left me but I was entered into a lease at €1,450 + bills a month which had only recently been renewed, I had no choice but to continue this even though I really could not afford to pay this and the bills myself, because of the lease commitment and the fact all bills were jointly in our name which ate away at my savings, but with cut-backs on non essential areas I was able to run at a loss of no more than €150.
Soon as the lease ended I moved out to share with a friend and reduced my monthly rent and bills by approx half to €800. However just before CHristmas I was laid off from work and was hit by a 25% rent increase a few days earlier and demands from my flatmate of half of a €400 electricity bill (80% used by her) and found it impossible to pay this for more than a couple of months as just when I was finding my feet I lost my income,
In the end, being British, I returned to the family in UK as a safe place to go, sustained a bicycle accident and was unable to work for approx two months, the person I was staying with sold out so without any income I had to go to another relatives who live in a rural area with little chance of jobs. I've done some temporary work but have found it hard to find employment because whilst my skills are in plentiful demand they are not in rural areas.
Basic facts for the last several months:
- I have income of £292 a week from Jobseekers in the UK
- I am paying €80 a month on loan repayments to AIB
- I'm also having to pay €125 a month minimum on credit card to AIB
- Every 3 months I'm paying €80 in quarterly overdraft interest + €15 bank fees.
On each month I've got about £50-£60 left over which isn't enough so effectively I'm having to supplement this with credit card spending, so even though I may pay €120 off the credit card, I end up having to spend almost all that for daily living so the balance doesn't go down and the €6.25 fee each time I transfer money from UK to IE doesn't help.
I have never missed a repayment or gone over any limits, but I worry about December since at the end of December I will have to pay €125 credit card + €80 Loan + bank fees + overdraft interest + facility fee. I will almost certainly go over limit or miss a payment at that point and I cannot afford it.
I would like to constructively work on dealing with this debt with AIB but I'm scared of doing so because realistically offering paying €100 a month of a debt this big sounds a totally pathetic figure to suggest, but of course it will increase when I gain employment.
I post here as debt companies seem unwilling to help me much because of the fact I live in the UK and the debts are in Ireland so the debt charities here don't want to touch cross border debt, the fall of the pound hasn't helped.
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