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lexi35
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I am in a difficult situation at the moment & i am at a loss of what to do so any help or opinions are greatly appreciated.
I was with my child's father for 6.5 years. We bought a house on the affordable housing but he never moved in as i found out he was cheating on me. So i was left to pay everything on my own. Im trying to have his name removd from the house which he agreed to, but he is now demanding money & i cannot afford that.
He earns €650 a week cash in hand but he works for his father who owns his own company. His father has him down for earning only €350 a week. I dont think i can prove this because im sure all cash is well hidden. Does the judge just go on what he has in front of him usually? His father has a huge house with another he rents, my ex is driving around in a €16k car & is renting a 2 bed apartment in Lucan im guessing €1200 at least a month (he shares this with his girlfriend)
My child also started school this year.
I pay a mortgage of €1000 a month i pay a minder €120 a week, car finance, bills, my childs sports etc.
I earn a good wage so im just scraping by but i need maintenance from my childs father. I have kept my word & i allow him to take his child 1-2 nights at the weekend. Also what visitation rights would he have?
I have recieved some money over 5 years but it was never enough & it was all cash in hand. What will happen there? Could i request that it is backdated?
Am i being unreasonable?
Does anyone know what may happen or has anyone been in a similar situation?
I was with my child's father for 6.5 years. We bought a house on the affordable housing but he never moved in as i found out he was cheating on me. So i was left to pay everything on my own. Im trying to have his name removd from the house which he agreed to, but he is now demanding money & i cannot afford that.
He earns €650 a week cash in hand but he works for his father who owns his own company. His father has him down for earning only €350 a week. I dont think i can prove this because im sure all cash is well hidden. Does the judge just go on what he has in front of him usually? His father has a huge house with another he rents, my ex is driving around in a €16k car & is renting a 2 bed apartment in Lucan im guessing €1200 at least a month (he shares this with his girlfriend)
My child also started school this year.
I pay a mortgage of €1000 a month i pay a minder €120 a week, car finance, bills, my childs sports etc.
I earn a good wage so im just scraping by but i need maintenance from my childs father. I have kept my word & i allow him to take his child 1-2 nights at the weekend. Also what visitation rights would he have?
I have recieved some money over 5 years but it was never enough & it was all cash in hand. What will happen there? Could i request that it is backdated?
Am i being unreasonable?
Does anyone know what may happen or has anyone been in a similar situation?