how to make an irish guy permanently romantic..

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a friend has just proposed to his now fiancee, but he hasn't a romantic bone in his body - she is very romantic - both in their early thirties - any ideas how we can instill a romantic streak in him on a permanent basis?
 
It just not possible, only exists in trashy chick lit. A man could not be permanently changed, and the brief glimpses of romance appear less and less as your time together moves on. Thats just life
 
"any ideas how we can instill a romantic streak in him on a permanent basis?"


Hypnosis. Or a Lobotomy. Otherwise just get on with it. He is what he is.

mf
 
Men cannot be changed. Especially men who are already in their 30's...
 
Why would you want to change your partner. Didnt you fall in love with him the way he is. No woman/man should ever settle with a man/woman thinking she/he is going to change. Thats a no no no.....
 
Women want one man to satisfy all their needs, man needs all women to satisfy one need.
 
There is a joke along the lines of:

" woman marries a man, hoping that he will change.
A man marries a woman, hoping that she wont change.
Both a wrong!"
 
Megan has it spot on. Why did she accept his proposal if she didn't like him the way he already is!?
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There is the story (very old one, sorry) about the couple planning their wedding day..

Man is making a mental list, Aisle, Altar, Hymm.

Woman is making similar list, I'll alter him.
 
The male praying mantis cannot copulate while its head is attached to its body. The female initiates sex by ripping the male's head off.



("Honey, I'm home. What the....?!")

 
Is it your male friend that's looking for advice? What does he mean "hasn't a romantic bone in his body"? He proposed, didn't he?

Romance means different things to different people. For some women it's chocs-and-flowers, for others it's hillwalking or bowling together, or him telling her she's got a lovely smile or a great This post will be deleted if not edited to remove bad language, or watching horror movies and hiding her head in his shoulder at the scary bit, or having him do the dishes while she has a bath. So my advice to him would be - ask her! What does she see as romantic? And then do it.

(Or if he wanted to be sneaky, ask her best friend or sister).
 
excellent answer auto320!

you all picked it up wrong -she doesn't want to change him at all.... just broaden his horizons!

thanks for all your 'advice'!

;)
 
try the ann summers shops for wild wierd and wonderful stuff or body shop for simpler massage oil.

be proactive - jump him rather than waiting for him to jump her! that can be amazing altogether!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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