I brought forward an informal grievance with work, i was told it may involve a mtg with line manager, now it's that plus the hr rep, they are insisting it is held in the new (old building) offices, i have a few times now asked for a neutral location, and on the basis it is informal and in the location the building is there is prevalent drug use with shooting up happening at the actual office steps, am i being a bit precious? In general i am upset it has come to a grievance and this insistance on location adds to the mix.