lmortgageholder
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Can I start by explaining the situation.
After the Credit Crunch, Wife and us had gone from stock options coming out of our ears, without a care in the world to a situation with no money coming in.
Neither of Us have a recognised degree, and really struggled to any work after the naughties.
On the other, my brother didn't go crazy in the naughties and has a recognised skill which is always in demand, but he was never the Mothers favourite, and struggled in that area. He has almost paid of his mortgage.
We always say he should emigrate and "Work Away". The way to look at IT is that there's only certain amount of Jobs to go around.
My questions is, would AIBU allow a mechanism for my brother to secure our mortgage or use some of the principal on his mortgage to pay off the couples mortgage?
Everyday is a struggle, and the We are all in IT together, and the Family, nothing else matters, whether a sibling is talented or not.
After the Credit Crunch, Wife and us had gone from stock options coming out of our ears, without a care in the world to a situation with no money coming in.
Neither of Us have a recognised degree, and really struggled to any work after the naughties.
On the other, my brother didn't go crazy in the naughties and has a recognised skill which is always in demand, but he was never the Mothers favourite, and struggled in that area. He has almost paid of his mortgage.
We always say he should emigrate and "Work Away". The way to look at IT is that there's only certain amount of Jobs to go around.
My questions is, would AIBU allow a mechanism for my brother to secure our mortgage or use some of the principal on his mortgage to pay off the couples mortgage?
Everyday is a struggle, and the We are all in IT together, and the Family, nothing else matters, whether a sibling is talented or not.
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