The problem with prenups is that you are possibly trying to sign away someone else’s rights. If one person says they will not look for maintenance in the case of a split, and they subsequently have children and split up, then the children are not denied maintenance because of something their parents signed before they were born. I am not trying to outline a specific situation, just give an illustration.
If you know exactly what you want to put into a prenup, maybe consult with a legal professional and see if there is a way to carry out your wishes.
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