Hi, our story so far, My Husband lost his job in 09, and i lost mine in 2010, we bought our home in 2000, we started arrangements with our bank in 2010 and kept to them until Sep 2012,we are now in €15,000 arears we just couldn't pay anything, we are on the dole, and we are a family of four it is very hard to survive, we have been stressed for the last 3 years, we don't get a goods night sleep thinking of what we can do. So my husband has got a job offer out of the EU, and with long discussions he is going to take it, if he finds it ok, myself and the kids will follow in a few months, in the meantime my nerves where gone about our home, so we went to a solicitor for advise, he was very good and to the point, he said we should take the chance of moving as we are in so much NE, and he will take on the sale of our home, he said the bank wont let the sale go ahead as we will not be telling the bank where we are gone, but he said after a few months they might agree, i know we will still owe the NE, but he said they can't serve us as it will cost a lot of money to go half way around the world, i asked can we go to prison for this and he said no, it's not a criminal offence, i am still very nervous, can anyone give me some advice please.thank you