R
rizoff
Guest
my mortgage was taken out before i met my wife . i am now 12 yrs on in difficulty with payments and we cant afford payments with both our wages . the bank today told me my wife is liable to pay the mortgage as she is the main earner even though she isnt on the mortgage she earns €600 pr week i earn €125 pr week our out goings are large due to travel expences to her workplace over 100 miles round trip plus 2 kids no welfare support my wife is ready to pack her bags and leave as it is better for the kids to do so . my question is i took out mortgage ,i paid it while i had work ,she paid it when i had none we now have very little and debts are increasing bank will not re structure as they say i cant pay it . but my wife can pay it if its restructured why wont they do this ?