Justlookin4help
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Hi myself and my partner have seperated.
We have one child.
The reasons for the separation are private but we 100% be not be getting back together.
We seperated mutually on good grounds.
We live together in our home with our child.
We both sleep in separate rooms.
prior to seperating i was paying all the bills, mortage, electric, gas, broadband, house insurance, property tax, bin charges, mortgage protection insurance, i still do as ex partner is not working.
My ex partner is no longer working since we seperated her reasons are private.
She wants to get maintenance from me for our child which i have agreed in principle to give a certain amount.
My querys is can she not get money off the state now as a single mother to reduce the amount of maintenance i pay her.
I cant move out cause il have to pay rent and a mortgage.
I dono what im gonna do long term. We are not together physically or emotionally, technically or sexually yet she and my child are financially dependant on me.
We have one child.
The reasons for the separation are private but we 100% be not be getting back together.
We seperated mutually on good grounds.
We live together in our home with our child.
We both sleep in separate rooms.
prior to seperating i was paying all the bills, mortage, electric, gas, broadband, house insurance, property tax, bin charges, mortgage protection insurance, i still do as ex partner is not working.
My ex partner is no longer working since we seperated her reasons are private.
She wants to get maintenance from me for our child which i have agreed in principle to give a certain amount.
My querys is can she not get money off the state now as a single mother to reduce the amount of maintenance i pay her.
I cant move out cause il have to pay rent and a mortgage.
I dono what im gonna do long term. We are not together physically or emotionally, technically or sexually yet she and my child are financially dependant on me.
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