They are lending responsibly to families with children, but still lending far too much to first time buyers (in my view). We were told by the first person we could get 130k so that's what we asked for. We only want 100k over 25yrs which would be around 550 a month (give or take). We are currently paying 700 in rent per month, which we are still finding difficult I might add that's why I want the smallest mortgage we can get away with to still keep some savings for emergency.