Inserteneo
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I am 29 and I have 2 children from an old relationship that did not work out, the mother of the 2 children is now looking for more maintenance and is threatening to go to court if I do not pay more. However I feel I am paying a fair amount. I would like you to look at the following finances and give me your opinion on how much you think I should pay, or how much you think a judge would award.
Currently I pay €130 per week and €100 per child at Christmas and I pay half of the going back to school costs. I also pay for half of any medical/dental costs and contribute towards activities such as football, summer camps etc. The kids aged 7 & 5 stay with me 1-2 nights a week and I take them for extra time when I am off work. She does not work, if she did I can provide childcare Thursday to Monday via myself and my Mother.
I am temporarily living back at home with my Mother and Father until I have saved for a deposit to purchase a house with my partner within the next 14 months. I am also due a 10% salary increment at the end of this year.
Per Week Income & Expenditure after tax.
My Income:
€560 Wages
Car mileage that covers car usage for work
My Expenses:
€45 Car Loan
€10 Life Insurance
€10 Car Tax
€15 Car Insurance
€10 Car Upkeep
€25 Car Diesel
€5 Mobile Phone
€20 Work Breakfast & Lunches
€50 Rent To Parents
€125 Mortgage Savings
€130 Maintenance
€30 (Kids Birthdays, Xmas, school, doctors/dental, sports, etc)
Total = €475
Total Income - Expenses = €85
Her Income
€247.60 One Parent Family Payment
€60 Childrens Allowance
€10 Fuel Allowance
€130 Maintenance
€95 Rent Allowance
Total = €542.60
Her Expenses:
€185 Rent
€15 Heating
€20 Electricity
€20 UPC
€100 Groceries
€10 Car Tax
€15 Car Insurance
€10 Car Upkeep
€50 Car Diesel
€5 Mobile Phone
€30 (Kids birthdays, Xmas, school, doctors/dental, sports, etc)
€25 Kids Clothes
Total = €485
Total Income - Expenses = €57.60
I know what most of her expenses are and for the ones that I am unsure about or that are variable I put them at a higher rate by searching for average costs online.
Currently I pay €130 per week and €100 per child at Christmas and I pay half of the going back to school costs. I also pay for half of any medical/dental costs and contribute towards activities such as football, summer camps etc. The kids aged 7 & 5 stay with me 1-2 nights a week and I take them for extra time when I am off work. She does not work, if she did I can provide childcare Thursday to Monday via myself and my Mother.
I am temporarily living back at home with my Mother and Father until I have saved for a deposit to purchase a house with my partner within the next 14 months. I am also due a 10% salary increment at the end of this year.
Per Week Income & Expenditure after tax.
My Income:
€560 Wages
Car mileage that covers car usage for work
My Expenses:
€45 Car Loan
€10 Life Insurance
€10 Car Tax
€15 Car Insurance
€10 Car Upkeep
€25 Car Diesel
€5 Mobile Phone
€20 Work Breakfast & Lunches
€50 Rent To Parents
€125 Mortgage Savings
€130 Maintenance
€30 (Kids Birthdays, Xmas, school, doctors/dental, sports, etc)
Total = €475
Total Income - Expenses = €85
Her Income
€247.60 One Parent Family Payment
€60 Childrens Allowance
€10 Fuel Allowance
€130 Maintenance
€95 Rent Allowance
Total = €542.60
Her Expenses:
€185 Rent
€15 Heating
€20 Electricity
€20 UPC
€100 Groceries
€10 Car Tax
€15 Car Insurance
€10 Car Upkeep
€50 Car Diesel
€5 Mobile Phone
€30 (Kids birthdays, Xmas, school, doctors/dental, sports, etc)
€25 Kids Clothes
Total = €485
Total Income - Expenses = €57.60
I know what most of her expenses are and for the ones that I am unsure about or that are variable I put them at a higher rate by searching for average costs online.