Hi fedup,
Many people dreams have been put on hold during the current financial climate. Don't think you're alone - you're not. For some associated with the building industry the future's so bleak they are considering selling up for what little they can get and emigrating.
You at least seem to have an income and you're addressing managing your debt. Many of us are seeing our life's savings going keeping us afloat in the hope the economy will recover enough to generate paying work again.
My best advice to you is - don't let unfulfilled dreams blind you to what you already have - a working relationship, family, youth, good health, a fine education and the ability to communicate.
Stay focussed on paying off your debts, improving your financial position and looking out for bargains when NAMA or some oher agency or company comes to sell off house sites.
Its not much to go on but I hope this helps.
ONQ.