Im a nervous wreck. My wife cheated on me, left the family home got an apartment and took our 15 year old daughter with her. She works full time and so do I. Now 4 months later reality has hit her and she is finding it hard financially. She summoned me for maintanence, then I summoned her for custody and access. Now I got a summons for a barring order, I cant believe her. She told me she was going to get me thrown out of the family home by serving a barring order on me. She does not live in the family home as she deserted me. Are the laws crazy enough to let her lie her way to getting a barring order on me and getting me thrown out of my own house? By the way I have not seen her in 4 months and I just got the summons today, is it not sticking out that she is lying because I have had no contact with her in the last 4 months. She is claming she is in fear of her life and was subjected to voilent abuse, which is clearly not true as I have not even seen her. She threatened to get me done in twice, and told me to be careful when Im driving this is a death threat. This woman is going to abuse the system to get me thrown out of my own home .....Please help as I dont know what to do
Stay calm when dealing with your ex. Shes obviously very unstable and out for everything she can get. Someone I know was sucker punched by his ex. He gripped her arms lightly to protect himself from being slapped as she went into a violent fit without any provocation. She then called the guards and used bruises on her arms she had self inflicted to charge him with assault and hence get a barring order. Even a proportional response in self defense can leave a bruise leading to questions and people/the guards often dont see the other side of the story in such cases. Its a case of even the most gentle of men can be judged unfairly just because they are physically stronger.
If things go that way for you dont even touch her in self defense to protect yourself or lose your cool whatsoever. Just get out of there fast.
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