I'd still continue efforts to contact Revenue on this, but I was in a similar boat a few years ago when I registered for VAT.
The information I got from Revenue at the time was that I needed to pay VAT at the standard 2 month intervals for a year, and then I could contact revenue to put me on the reduced 4 month interval returns (based on the evidence of the previous returns).
The VAT periods run by the calendar year, not from when you registered, so the standard VAT periods are Jan-Feb, Mar-Apr, May-June etc.
Then if you go on 4 month intervals, it's just Jan-Apr, May-Aug and Sep-Dec.