She made some terrible decisions. I do not believe giving her a hug will sort her out. She needs tough love a this stage.
I know she's having a hard time, but if my harsh words focus her mind on listening to experts, then I am happy to give it, even if it makes me sounds like a prick.
Flax
I have just read the last two pages of this and I fully support the approach you are taking.
Tough love is often necessary. But the person providing it will usually just get abused for it. It's much easier to hug someone and tell them that the banks are really terrible. The "victim" gets a warm fuzzy feeling, but it doesn't help them solve their problem.
Well done!
Brendan
Did you get this yet? Did you arrange an appointment to talk to them in person yet?Well the pack that MABS are sending me out I'm sure will be of some benefit and help to me.
There is no point in "advising" what I should have done back then. It's too late for that now.
he only came short of labelling me as Stupid.
Did you get this yet? Did you arrange an appointment to talk to them in person yet?
Flax
I have just read the last two pages of this and I fully support the approach you are taking.
Tough love is often necessary. But the person providing it will usually just get abused for it. It's much easier to hug someone and tell them that the banks are really terrible. The "victim" gets a warm fuzzy feeling, but it doesn't help them solve their problem.
Well done!
Brendan
You should give this greater consideration; have a look on daft.ie/sharing to see how much you might get in your area. An extra 300-500 tax free per month could make all the difference. Plus help with bills.
I'd move my own furniture in and sleep on the floor if that's what it took, alternatively someone might take unfurnished.
Maybe if there was more information available from sites in relation to the potential drop in property values over the past 2 years this individual wouldn't be in this situation.
This seems like a good idea. You give a prospective tenant your bed. Within two months the rent has bought you a new bed. After that, the rent is additional tax-free income.
Maybe if there was more information available from sites in relation to the potential drop in property values over the past 2 years this individual wouldn't be in this situation.
LOL
Yep, it's AAM's fault!
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