hi,
Im writing this on behalf of my mother, her brother died (sucide) in november and she has just got his death cert after inquest. Now my mum is his next of kin and that is in writing, he has 3,000 saved in the bank and 10,000 saved in the post office and my mam has them books.
Now he always told mam that he was saving for his own funeral as he didnt want to burden her, so now she requiries that money to pay some funeral bills and memorial cards and in the next year his headstone.
She went to the bank today and was told that all the family have to sign a piece of paper stating that they dont object to mam having the money, now mam has 2 more brother's and they are okay with this and she has 4 sisters, 2 of them are okay but the other 2 sis's she hasnt spoken to in over 12 years and either has the rest of the family so how does this work ? as they never got on with the deceased and shunned him totally and it wouldnt be his wish for them to know his business or get anything of it!
Please tell me what is the procudure for this as someone told me that if the monies is small in the bank then they should hand it over to the next of kin and its just 3,000. Is this true?
any help i would appreciate please
Im writing this on behalf of my mother, her brother died (sucide) in november and she has just got his death cert after inquest. Now my mum is his next of kin and that is in writing, he has 3,000 saved in the bank and 10,000 saved in the post office and my mam has them books.
Now he always told mam that he was saving for his own funeral as he didnt want to burden her, so now she requiries that money to pay some funeral bills and memorial cards and in the next year his headstone.
She went to the bank today and was told that all the family have to sign a piece of paper stating that they dont object to mam having the money, now mam has 2 more brother's and they are okay with this and she has 4 sisters, 2 of them are okay but the other 2 sis's she hasnt spoken to in over 12 years and either has the rest of the family so how does this work ? as they never got on with the deceased and shunned him totally and it wouldnt be his wish for them to know his business or get anything of it!
Please tell me what is the procudure for this as someone told me that if the monies is small in the bank then they should hand it over to the next of kin and its just 3,000. Is this true?
any help i would appreciate please