The breezes through electrical sockets are a common feature of poorly sealed, older timber frame houses (thus the current trend for an additional service cavity inside and separate from the main timber frame structure).
However the problem should not be as severe as you are describing.
Pressurised air is getting into the cavity between your blockwork and the timber stud wall. This is usual as the cavity is generally vented to keep it dry in any case. The timber stud wall should have been pretty well sealed on its outer face with a continuous sealed breather membrane or vapor seal of some type. This may not be as well sealed as it should have been in your case.
Unfortunately its a difficult ptoblem to get to the bottom of without some digging around, I would suggest that air may be infiltrating the timber frame in the following areas:
- The junctions between the timber frame walls and the first floor joists
- Around any walls vents if you have any
-At any other junctions or breaks in the timber frame wall.
The first step is likely to be to dig up any photos which you may have taken during the installation of the timber frame, and try to compare these to examples of 'good practice' which you can find on the net etc..
Then talk to the architect/engineer who certified the build for you, and to the builder/timber frame supplier, and discuss your problem with them.
If you arent getting any satisfaction, appoint a consultant to examine the house and write you up a report on the apparant defects, and proceed from there.
You should not be having problems to this extent properly and recently constructed house.
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