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Hi everyone,
I'm in a really awkward, horrible situation. I had a daughter with my boyfriend at the time, who turned out to be very abusive and violent. I've had a barring order against him, and assault charges (that i later dropped). However when we went to court we got joint custody of her. That was over a year ago. Since then he has made no effort, barely any contact, he hasnt paid a penny of maintenance that the court ordered him to pay. He's been in jail for a few months aswel i believe over assault charges or something along them lines. He contacted me a few days ago and of course i said he couldn't take her. After all she doesnt even know him he's a complete stranger to her. So then he send me txts threatening to 'murder my family' , 'get me shot' and so on. Very violent. The next day he tells me he was on drugs sayin that. And he was shocked when i still said i won't let him near my daughter. Now he's threatenin me with kidnapping charges because i took my daughter on holidays wihout telling him, and i also moved house and he does not know my new address. Can he really get me done for kidnapping because we have joint custody?? Please somebody help me bacause i don't have a clue about these things..Thanks
I'm in a really awkward, horrible situation. I had a daughter with my boyfriend at the time, who turned out to be very abusive and violent. I've had a barring order against him, and assault charges (that i later dropped). However when we went to court we got joint custody of her. That was over a year ago. Since then he has made no effort, barely any contact, he hasnt paid a penny of maintenance that the court ordered him to pay. He's been in jail for a few months aswel i believe over assault charges or something along them lines. He contacted me a few days ago and of course i said he couldn't take her. After all she doesnt even know him he's a complete stranger to her. So then he send me txts threatening to 'murder my family' , 'get me shot' and so on. Very violent. The next day he tells me he was on drugs sayin that. And he was shocked when i still said i won't let him near my daughter. Now he's threatenin me with kidnapping charges because i took my daughter on holidays wihout telling him, and i also moved house and he does not know my new address. Can he really get me done for kidnapping because we have joint custody?? Please somebody help me bacause i don't have a clue about these things..Thanks