autumnleaf
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Nice one. My rule of thumb is that I never go to a wedding (or anything maybe) that I can get out of.If I ever get married, I'll be sure to include in the invitation: "This is in no way an obligation and if you are not in the mood for silly hats and the standard food and the Siege of Ennis, we know you wish us well but feel free to spend the day doing something else."
.......as a man i dont need to buy new clothes. Same old suit does the trick and really no one notices even if it is a bit shiny.
I was invited to a wedding last week by a woman I work with - I hardly know her, and we don't really like each other - I have no clue why she invited me ... I feel no obligation to go though - have already sent my regrets. Do people invite the world and it's mother for the presents? Surely there's an economy of scale factor being considered - after 200 guests you start making money on your wedding!
Sometimes that's the point surely - people get to meet family members they would normally never see.
Do people really get invited to that many weddings anyway that this problem arises?
I only ever get invited to weddings when I know the couple very well. If e.g. cousins or other relatives get married I would only get an invite if I see them or communicate with them regularly - and often this is not the case.
Maybe my extended family is unusually distant or unsentimental?
I thought the days of inviting mere acquaintances and obscure relatives, just for the sake of it, or to pump up numbers, was dying out really?
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