Many thanks for all your replies,
I met the owner over the weekend for coffee to put forth "my Side" of the story, whilst I accepted that I was wrong to do what I did, I could not accept was the way in which it was dealt with.
He agreed that it was entirely the fault of the manager on duty, and the manager in question was seriously reprimanded, and I was basically begged to come back. He let me know I was a valued member of the management "team".
While I was happy that he blames the manager Personally, I still feel unsatisfied, as, having to walk back into the hotel when you feel like people are talking about you behind your back is extremely uncomfortable. Also the duty manager in question is not speaking to me, like i wronged him!!
I agree that the hotel business is full of "rife", and after working in the industry for the past 7 years, some of the things I have seen are unbelieveable... bad pay, unfair dismissals, docked pay for breaks, no contracts, unfortunatly I love the industry, but not the hotel I work in.
Therefore my decision has been is to return, if only for the sake of a paycheck, and try to find something else somewhere else in the new year.
Thanks Again
Confused
(ps.. I got paid for the week without question)