Thanks for the feedback. I'm afraid the house is 2nd hand so the 125sq.m limit makes no difference. The house isn't large, I'd say it'd be just about below that limit in any case. As for buying a cheaper house, I really *really* would like to buy a cheaper house, and did try manfully, but it is really difficult to find something that's within reasonable distance of workplaces, amenities, schools etc. and in a "good" area, whatever that is.
Yes, I was exempt from SD as a FTB 3yrs ago when I bought a house in Limerick for half of what a house in Cork is now costing us, but I'd much rather pay the 5k it would've been then rather than the 20k now!
Reading some of the posts and discussions on property prices, it is all a bit worrying. This isn't an investment purchase, but no-one wants to end up in negative equity, or paying more than you need to.
As a last (rhetoric!) statement on SD, why the hell is the buyer getting screwed, not the seller?