Hi Jenny and Welcome to AAM,
Did you get your well water tested by a reputable independent laboratory?
Did you sample the raw water from the well and the water after water treatment?
Did you test for the full list of parameters (biological, chemical and metals)?
Is there a smell from the water when you turn on the tap first thing?
What kind of water treatment do you have? I suspect you have a water softener of some sort, was it designed and installed with your requirements in mind, or was it just "off the shelf"?
Is your water treatment guy well established reputable guy? If not check out some alternatives in the yellow pages and get a second opinion based on a full set of results. Check that he is a member of the WQA or equivalent trade body.
aj