Hi Kate
Why is money tight?
Is it because you are making huge mortgage repayments?
Are you both making maximum contributions to your SSIAs?
This would be my order of priority:
1)Make the maximum contribution to your SSIAs.
2)Without squandering money, enjoy life. In other words, don't scrimp and save now, so that you will die rich.
3) Get a large mortgage under control through capital repayments.
4)Make reasonable contributions to a pension scheme, if you are being taxed at the top rate.Do not contribute to a pension if you are not at the top rate of tax
5) Make capital repayments on your mortgage.
So, if things are tight because you are paying €500 a month into your SSIA, then forget about the pension. When the SSIA matures, feed it into a pension. If things are tight because you are making capital repayments on a mortgage, consider extending the term of the mortgage to reduce the capital repayment element.
Brendan