Separated last year. Its all very amicable (at the moment).
However, I would like to know what happens in relation to house. I moved out of house as it was only option available - we have agreed at the moment that other half will stay in house.. due to current etc we are not sure how the 'buying out' process works....
- Do i still owe half the balance outstanding?
- can he pay me a nominal amt (i don't want half, enough to get me started) and at that stage i could take my name off deeds?
Yes. Actually, you each owe the full amount. You could not just pay your half and walk away.
- can he pay me a nominal amt (i don't want half, enough to get me started) and at that stage i could take my name off deeds?
Its not a question of you "taking your name off the deeds". You ideally want to end up in a situation where you have no joint assets and no joint debts. If the Bank were willing to let him take over the mortgage and release you ( you must have the bank's consent) from the mortgage and if he could also pay you money for your share, that would be ideal.
Post up the value of the property, the debt outstanding on the mortgage and your relative financial positions and you will probably get a more concentrated response.