"Also say i got a bill that showed fees were too much for me to pay can i change solicitor and how do i get hold of deeds to house?"
Not following this at all.
Steps (involving solicitor) having agreed the sale
1. Ask solicitor to give a fee estimate. Likely to be c. €1,000 plus VAT = €1230.00
Outlays will be nominal - folio and file plan 40, copy instrument 40, Comm for Oaths - 25
How are you going to pay it? From sale proceeds presumably. If you cannot pay, the solicitor will not act.
2. You get the BER. Pay Household charge. Pay Local Property Tax.
3. You authorise solicitor to take up the Deeds from the Bank on Accountable Trust Receipt.
4. Solicitor issues contracts and sale proceeds. Solicitor deducts fees from proceeds.
Now, if what you are saying is that the process has not started then you need to find another solicitor . But if you cannot afford any solicitor? Well, who will act without being paid?
But if you can find another solicitor then the first solicitor will have to return the Deeds to the Bank and the new solicitor will then start the process.
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