Tony / Michael whatever his name is ? He and the Company he represents would want to rethink their customer service strategies
He doesn't have a customer service strategy, or rather...he does...but it is that there should be no service!! "Customers" pay for a flight, and as long as nothing goes wrong, you can take comfort from teh fact that it was cheap! But if it does go wrong, they simply do not want to know. Their sole purpose is not to provide a flight service, but to run a business and extract as much revenue as possible, ...and their product is selling flights. It is always a gamble flying with Ryanair - if it goes OK, fine, if it doesn't, you're stuffed! Cheap seats are fine, but you also pay for bags, credit card payments, drinks etc, in fact ANYTHING that can be used to squeeze a few more bucks out of you.
Re your own case, you are understandably angry, and rightly so, but my recommendation would be to stand back and be philosophical about it. By all means, complain away, but just think how many others before you have been treated in teh same way, and Ryanair are still going strong. Read the small print - I'm sure it exonerates them from EVERYTHING!!
And finally, after all I've said, and I've had bad experiences with them before (but not as bad as yours!), I'm still booked to fly with them again this summer! I've got loads of insurance though!