Hi there. I'll try and make this query as succinct as I can. Father died in 2006 and we just found out that he left money in accounts that we werent aware of that havent gone through probate. We found this out when we made an appointment with his solicitor to discuss mortgaging the family home as we are in dire straits in terms of getting money to look after our mother who has dementia and still lives at home with pretty much 24 hour care which is expensive.
Mum did have an account of her own and a few years back she got one of her offspring onto as a joint account holder. Turned out badly. Unfortunately, this member of the family cleaned out the account over a period of a few years and has now become incommunicado and wont contact any of the family. The rest of us are subsidizing Mums care.
The problem with these new accounts of Dads that have appeared is that the person who cleaned out Mums account is the executor of Dads will and we cant get in contact with her. She also has say over where the money goes once it is available. It was highlighted in 2010 that money had gone missing from Mums account (we know the executor took it) and at that stage, I thought that the hemorrhaging of the account would stop at that stage but it just got worse. We can even see from the bank statements where she did online transfers from Mums account to her own! Unfortunately this person had full legal rights to the account but what they did was totally immoral in my opinion.
One last thing - the solicitor with responsibility for Dads probate also acts as the solicitor for the executor. is this a potential conflict of interest.
What I'd like to do is twofold
- change solicitors
- get the executor changed to someone who is acceptable to all the rest of us siblings.
I know this is a complicated situation that will probably need a sit down with a neutral legal person but my question is this - do I have a leg to stand on and is it worth my while going down the legal route or are all the cards in the executors hands?
Thanks in advance for any advice you can give me. We need to get this money ring fenced for Mums care but are in a precarious position at the moment and don't really know how to proceed
I just see some advice from Seagull saying "You can apply to have the executor removed if they can be shown to not be performing their duties. I don't know how long the executor can delay before sanctions are brought by the probate office." Its been 10 years since Dad died so I suppose that would constiture not performing duties.
Mum did have an account of her own and a few years back she got one of her offspring onto as a joint account holder. Turned out badly. Unfortunately, this member of the family cleaned out the account over a period of a few years and has now become incommunicado and wont contact any of the family. The rest of us are subsidizing Mums care.
The problem with these new accounts of Dads that have appeared is that the person who cleaned out Mums account is the executor of Dads will and we cant get in contact with her. She also has say over where the money goes once it is available. It was highlighted in 2010 that money had gone missing from Mums account (we know the executor took it) and at that stage, I thought that the hemorrhaging of the account would stop at that stage but it just got worse. We can even see from the bank statements where she did online transfers from Mums account to her own! Unfortunately this person had full legal rights to the account but what they did was totally immoral in my opinion.
One last thing - the solicitor with responsibility for Dads probate also acts as the solicitor for the executor. is this a potential conflict of interest.
What I'd like to do is twofold
- change solicitors
- get the executor changed to someone who is acceptable to all the rest of us siblings.
I know this is a complicated situation that will probably need a sit down with a neutral legal person but my question is this - do I have a leg to stand on and is it worth my while going down the legal route or are all the cards in the executors hands?
Thanks in advance for any advice you can give me. We need to get this money ring fenced for Mums care but are in a precarious position at the moment and don't really know how to proceed
I just see some advice from Seagull saying "You can apply to have the executor removed if they can be shown to not be performing their duties. I don't know how long the executor can delay before sanctions are brought by the probate office." Its been 10 years since Dad died so I suppose that would constiture not performing duties.