it si extermly hard to get passive with ICF. the lowest u value ive seen only approached 0.2/ you certainly will not get it with a single leaf system, theres thermal bridges all over the place, especially with a stepped design. you are probably talking about 12" of a double leaf system for passive standards....
'passive' is a word that bandied about a lot. the only way of a house being truely passive is for it to be certified by the passive institue. [broken link removed]
their method of testing is very strict.
AFAIK the only 'passive' house in ireland, the mosart one, is still undergoing testing to determine if its actually passive.. im open to be corrected on this. I do know that it needed remedial work to counteract overheating.
The SEI have recently published their own passive house guideline, ( [broken link removed] ) however these are patchy in parts, so the passive institute and the phpp method is still the best way to determine.
For a low energy aim, my best advice is to hire the competent professionals you need, architects, engineers, QS, energy auditors..... look for references for each and every professional, their skills can vary widely.
You need to select a yearly energy figure (usually determined by fuel costs), and work from there back to the build specification.
for example. say you do not want to spend any more than €400 per year of energy for your house. this will equate to 'whatever' BER rating.... in order to meet this rating you need certain u values for elements of construction..... say 0.16 for walls, 0.12 for floor etc..... your architect, or, more importantly, your architectural technician, should be able to describe what construction make-ups will meet these u values..........
again for example a TF house with 'x'mm of insulation, versus cavity wall with 'x'mm of insulation, versus x specification of ICF, versus x sepficication of poroton etc etc etc...
your QS should then be able to price up whichever of these constructions you want, and give a 'per sq m' pricing on each....(remember each method of construction has its own pros and cons....)
you can them specify your build and go to tender based on this information.....
theres a hell of a lot involved so the skills of your professionals is paramount.... also paramount is your ability to make decisions and stick by them!!!
best of luck, remember, one of the most important factors in determining a low energy dwelling is the amount of passive solar gains, so your dwelling should be designed for same.... this will be determined by the skill of the architect....