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mumoffour
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Hoping someone can help me out here, I'm pretty desperate, not to mention confused!
Here's my story. I was made redundant after four year on Friday the 15th. Signed on, on Wednesday the 18th. They told me in the dole office that I wouldn't receive any benefit for four to five weeks because of backlog. Went to see the community welfare officer and he gave me an emergency payment of 269e. Since then I seem to be doing nothing but filling in forms!
My two eldest kids (17 and 19) are both heading to college in October, one into second year and once starting off. So, we've had to fill in grant forms, which in itself is a nightmare!
Then, I had to fill out forms for the cwo for back to school allowance and for the lone parents allowance which, though I've ben a single parent for 8 years I've never claimed.
First thing I need to know is this, the grant people want a letter from the cwo telling them how much I'm getting but he says he needs a form and won't write a letter, they say they don't have forms and want a letter. The grant application closes on Friday and I'm dancing in circles with both of them. He's hard to reach by phone but keeps refusing me. Grant people say they won't go ahead with the grants until they get the letter, they can wait till I get benefits from unemployment but that'll put back the grant for up to three months and I can't pay the reg fees due in September.
Second question, or series of them.
CWO says I may qualify for back to school allowance but my eldest lad doesn't qualify because he's too old, despite the fact he's in college and qualifys as a child for unemployment benefit. He also says same for lone parents.
CWO told me today that my weekly benefit from him will be 69e because my ex pays maintenance of 200pw (which I use for bills) I've supplied him with my court order for the maintenance but he says that means nowt. I also have substantial debts and a few bank loans, one of which is 199per week!!
My question is, how do I cope dropping from almost 700e pw to 69??!! Does the social welfare have anything to do with the banks? Is there anything I can get from them that will bring this 69 up to more? Why won't he accept my eldest lad as a a qualifying child?? (I'm trying to get a letter from his college saying he's a student but they are busy and say it'll be a couple of weeks but cwo says he won't accept that either)
Next question. I phoned my bank and explained that I'd lost my job and please could they reduce my payments till I get sorted, they basically told me to s** off!! I kid you not, the manager was shouting at me, she was saying there'd be legal letters and everything unless I pay the money, but sure if I havent' got it, how do I pay it, and whats worse is, my maintenance payment is court ordered to go in the bank and it pays the esb and all the other bills, so if the bank takes it, I'm stuck. Is there any way to stop them.
Next question, do I actually qualify for any of the stuff he's asking me to fill out forms for?? If they take my means as 200pw plus the 69 from them, then am I over the ceiling for medical card, back to school allowance and lone parents.
Next questions, if I get one of the above, do I get the other?
Next questions, If they have my rsi pps number on file, why do I have to fill out so many forms, why is it so hard and soul destroying??
Oh, on the matter of redundancy, I didn't know I was due it, and have requested it, but the company said they'd look into it, but I havent' heard anything back yet, so yet another brick wall to climb.
I'm really sorry for the long post, I'm really hoping someone out there can answer some of my questions, I've been trawling the net for info, and whilst there's some, it's patchy at best, I don't know what the ceilings are, which departments see maintenance as means and which don't. I did read somewhere that if it's court ordered then it's not counted but I can't find that again, was I dreaming.
Thanks in advance
Sha
Here's my story. I was made redundant after four year on Friday the 15th. Signed on, on Wednesday the 18th. They told me in the dole office that I wouldn't receive any benefit for four to five weeks because of backlog. Went to see the community welfare officer and he gave me an emergency payment of 269e. Since then I seem to be doing nothing but filling in forms!
My two eldest kids (17 and 19) are both heading to college in October, one into second year and once starting off. So, we've had to fill in grant forms, which in itself is a nightmare!
Then, I had to fill out forms for the cwo for back to school allowance and for the lone parents allowance which, though I've ben a single parent for 8 years I've never claimed.
First thing I need to know is this, the grant people want a letter from the cwo telling them how much I'm getting but he says he needs a form and won't write a letter, they say they don't have forms and want a letter. The grant application closes on Friday and I'm dancing in circles with both of them. He's hard to reach by phone but keeps refusing me. Grant people say they won't go ahead with the grants until they get the letter, they can wait till I get benefits from unemployment but that'll put back the grant for up to three months and I can't pay the reg fees due in September.
Second question, or series of them.
CWO says I may qualify for back to school allowance but my eldest lad doesn't qualify because he's too old, despite the fact he's in college and qualifys as a child for unemployment benefit. He also says same for lone parents.
CWO told me today that my weekly benefit from him will be 69e because my ex pays maintenance of 200pw (which I use for bills) I've supplied him with my court order for the maintenance but he says that means nowt. I also have substantial debts and a few bank loans, one of which is 199per week!!
My question is, how do I cope dropping from almost 700e pw to 69??!! Does the social welfare have anything to do with the banks? Is there anything I can get from them that will bring this 69 up to more? Why won't he accept my eldest lad as a a qualifying child?? (I'm trying to get a letter from his college saying he's a student but they are busy and say it'll be a couple of weeks but cwo says he won't accept that either)
Next question. I phoned my bank and explained that I'd lost my job and please could they reduce my payments till I get sorted, they basically told me to s** off!! I kid you not, the manager was shouting at me, she was saying there'd be legal letters and everything unless I pay the money, but sure if I havent' got it, how do I pay it, and whats worse is, my maintenance payment is court ordered to go in the bank and it pays the esb and all the other bills, so if the bank takes it, I'm stuck. Is there any way to stop them.
Next question, do I actually qualify for any of the stuff he's asking me to fill out forms for?? If they take my means as 200pw plus the 69 from them, then am I over the ceiling for medical card, back to school allowance and lone parents.
Next questions, if I get one of the above, do I get the other?
Next questions, If they have my rsi pps number on file, why do I have to fill out so many forms, why is it so hard and soul destroying??
Oh, on the matter of redundancy, I didn't know I was due it, and have requested it, but the company said they'd look into it, but I havent' heard anything back yet, so yet another brick wall to climb.
I'm really sorry for the long post, I'm really hoping someone out there can answer some of my questions, I've been trawling the net for info, and whilst there's some, it's patchy at best, I don't know what the ceilings are, which departments see maintenance as means and which don't. I did read somewhere that if it's court ordered then it's not counted but I can't find that again, was I dreaming.
Thanks in advance
Sha