Thinking of moving back to Dublin after Christmas. Discovered that I really dislike small town living, all the gossip and backbiting and everyone wanting to know everyone's bussiness. Recently two friends of mine were really upset by completely malicious and unfounded gossip/roumours. Am in small country town now for four years and finally believing what everyone told me that I am a city girl.
Just wondered what would be good. Just wondered what would be considered good reasons to move, given that I also have a child in First and a child in Second Class:
1. Is it ok to move the kids just because I do not like the town.
2. Definitely no job opportunities down here for me - but as I will be only working part-time for the next few years that's not such a big issue. Though like most country areas - jobs seem to be generally got on who you know.
3. Friends - are still mostly in Dublin. Have been wary of making friends here because I see and hear how a lot of people gossip about each other in a very negative way.
4. I'm studying part-time in Dublin.
5. I seem to have a completely different way of looking at things than a lot of people down here - I don't want to know people's business, who had an affair with who, or who is breaking-up or who is beating their wife etc.
6. School not great at all. There have been a lot of problems in the school, and the principal's attitude has been the cause of most of the problems. I was the first one to complain to the board of management. Since then, twelve parents have put in complaints to the BOM, and several parents have taken their children out of the school because of the problems.
7. Would be moving to Drumcondra in Dublin. I believe most of the schools are excellen there with a good range of after school activities.
8. Cost of living and childcare much lower in the country.
Any comments on what would be good enough reasons to move would be helpful. Should I just stay, though I am not happy here, so as not to disrupt the children's routine. My son wants to move, my daughter doesn't, but is coming around to the idea especially as Westwood for swimming and Dollymount Strand and Clontarf quite near for walks.
Need to think about decision soon as house in Drumcondra is very small and would need an extension for music room for my daughter and home/office for me, as I will be doing lots of work at home in the future.
Comments much appreciated.
Just wondered what would be good. Just wondered what would be considered good reasons to move, given that I also have a child in First and a child in Second Class:
1. Is it ok to move the kids just because I do not like the town.
2. Definitely no job opportunities down here for me - but as I will be only working part-time for the next few years that's not such a big issue. Though like most country areas - jobs seem to be generally got on who you know.
3. Friends - are still mostly in Dublin. Have been wary of making friends here because I see and hear how a lot of people gossip about each other in a very negative way.
4. I'm studying part-time in Dublin.
5. I seem to have a completely different way of looking at things than a lot of people down here - I don't want to know people's business, who had an affair with who, or who is breaking-up or who is beating their wife etc.
6. School not great at all. There have been a lot of problems in the school, and the principal's attitude has been the cause of most of the problems. I was the first one to complain to the board of management. Since then, twelve parents have put in complaints to the BOM, and several parents have taken their children out of the school because of the problems.
7. Would be moving to Drumcondra in Dublin. I believe most of the schools are excellen there with a good range of after school activities.
8. Cost of living and childcare much lower in the country.
Any comments on what would be good enough reasons to move would be helpful. Should I just stay, though I am not happy here, so as not to disrupt the children's routine. My son wants to move, my daughter doesn't, but is coming around to the idea especially as Westwood for swimming and Dollymount Strand and Clontarf quite near for walks.
Need to think about decision soon as house in Drumcondra is very small and would need an extension for music room for my daughter and home/office for me, as I will be doing lots of work at home in the future.
Comments much appreciated.