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His health is not the best. Update today from other sibling who is involved
(she is third share owner) He is going to specialist this coming week and is possibly facing heart surgery.
My original reply to Perper, is don't wait. Get it settled now. I let it slide because of a family (tragic) death of a fourth sibling. This death prevented us moving forward, to settle this. The fear of losing another sibling if we go after him to settle is always there.
It is a wait and see now, for the next few months.
Thank you for all your help and comments. Will post again if anything changes.
Reading through all the posts here lets me see I am not alone.
(which is very sad to see) what money and property can tear families apart.